A fellow reefer needs our help

[RevClyburn]

Hello

I read a post this morning from Ken123, he going through a tough time. I've been where he is, it's a very difficult time. I'm asking all fellow reefers, to encourage him and to see what you can do to help him out. We all have been through some difficult times in our lives, it's nothing like having a friend to talk too, really just to listen to us. Drop him a note/post, or PM. And as a club, let's share what we can to help him out with his tank. You never know when you'll be a the one needing help and support.

revclyburn

 

[GregW]

Hey Rev,
Ken123 hasn't made any posts according to his stats page. You got the right name?

 

[debfife]

He posted on RC that he's going through a divorce.
But in his signature it says his hobby is his girlfriend!

 

[RichT]

He posted on RC that he's going through a divorce.
But in his signature it says his hobby is his girlfriend!

So your point is?
Sheese....your acting like that's a bad thing. D'oh

Seriously though, without knowing the situation, judging could be risky.

 

[RevClyburn]

Hey Debfif, I think that's just a blank statement, you know how we men can be. Our cars can become the other woman, we're built that way. In any event, the guy could really use some support, help. Even a woman's opinion helps at times like this. Let's pick the man up, he really needs it.

revclyburn

 

[mikem]

Rev. His signature didn't say " his tank is his girlfriend" It said his INTERESTS is his girlfriend. Deb was just pointing that out. I took it 2 ways and none of them were negative. First I laughted cause he's married and has a second interest which is a girlfriend. Then I thought Is he married or is it his girlfriend. Either way, I didn't take it as a hurtful statement. I'm sorry that you did. If you know Deb, you wouldn't take it the wrong way. We all feel bad when these things happen, and if theres anything I can do to help, LMK. I'de be willing to chip in on something to help his life a little easier during these hard times for him. Just my $.02

 

[RevClyburn]

Ok

to all, I apologize. But, I've been there, so I identify with him. Didn't mean to hurt any feelings, and if I did, I am deeply sorry. It's a terrible thing to have to go through, even when you want a divorce, it's not the easiest or painless. There's a break in so many areas of your life. Divorce does more than separate 2 people. Sorry Deb, I'm sure your a very sweet person. I didn't mean any harm. I modified what I said, I think it was best I did. I don't want the club coming after me, lol. Nor do I want to ever hurt people. Please forgive me, everybody

revclyburn