Happy New Year fellow reefers.
As we look ahead to 2013 I was sitting and looking at my tank and wondering what did we learn in the year that just became, the past.
I remember when I was setting up my tank in 2011 there were many questions in my head. There were so many different opinions on how to set up plumbing, which lights to buy, which skimmer to get, blah blah blah.
In the end, it was a gamble. What I learned is that this hobby is never same for two people. Ever tank is different. Something that I do, works for me and it might not work for someone else. The light I use may not work for me well but it might do wonders for others. So how do we decide what we really achieved in the year where we spend so much time, effort, money and sleepless nights?
A friend of mine here once told me (at least I was a fried from my part ) that a certain fish will not last a week in my care. He was very clear to state that truth might hurt at times. I never had that fish at the time. Now I have had it for over 8 months in my kind of care and yes truth might hurt so - Ouch!
Well here is what I think I learned. This hobby can be a real pain at times. We have seen beautiful tanks that have crashed over night right here on our forums. It could be due to human error or equipment failure or mother nature or simply bad luck. However what is the constant among all the tanks we have here? The effort and time that each and everyone of us puts into this hobby!
Sometimes it is just pure bad luck. I honestly believe we all give in our best to get the tank up and running and see it grow. We all care for it like our kids and at times more that that.
To quote another friend of mine here -- His wife once asked him why he was never so worried about his kids when they got sick and he would lose sleep over his fishes and corals? His reply was simple. If kids are sick I can take them to a doctor!
So true! Is it not?
So why do we have to be arrogant? Why is it necessary to make fun of those who are having a bad phase in the hobby? Why proclaim that the fish would attain immunity once it touched the holy water in your tank and if anyone else tried it would be a disaster?
I think we should all keep our feet on the ground and a level head on our shoulders. Do what you can do best, read as much as you can and seek advice when in doubt.
You never know when this hobby will test your patience and your hard work.
Happy Reefing to all of you.
Sunny
As we look ahead to 2013 I was sitting and looking at my tank and wondering what did we learn in the year that just became, the past.
I remember when I was setting up my tank in 2011 there were many questions in my head. There were so many different opinions on how to set up plumbing, which lights to buy, which skimmer to get, blah blah blah.
In the end, it was a gamble. What I learned is that this hobby is never same for two people. Ever tank is different. Something that I do, works for me and it might not work for someone else. The light I use may not work for me well but it might do wonders for others. So how do we decide what we really achieved in the year where we spend so much time, effort, money and sleepless nights?
A friend of mine here once told me (at least I was a fried from my part ) that a certain fish will not last a week in my care. He was very clear to state that truth might hurt at times. I never had that fish at the time. Now I have had it for over 8 months in my kind of care and yes truth might hurt so - Ouch!
Well here is what I think I learned. This hobby can be a real pain at times. We have seen beautiful tanks that have crashed over night right here on our forums. It could be due to human error or equipment failure or mother nature or simply bad luck. However what is the constant among all the tanks we have here? The effort and time that each and everyone of us puts into this hobby!
Sometimes it is just pure bad luck. I honestly believe we all give in our best to get the tank up and running and see it grow. We all care for it like our kids and at times more that that.
To quote another friend of mine here -- His wife once asked him why he was never so worried about his kids when they got sick and he would lose sleep over his fishes and corals? His reply was simple. If kids are sick I can take them to a doctor!
So true! Is it not?
So why do we have to be arrogant? Why is it necessary to make fun of those who are having a bad phase in the hobby? Why proclaim that the fish would attain immunity once it touched the holy water in your tank and if anyone else tried it would be a disaster?
I think we should all keep our feet on the ground and a level head on our shoulders. Do what you can do best, read as much as you can and seek advice when in doubt.
You never know when this hobby will test your patience and your hard work.
Happy Reefing to all of you.
Sunny
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