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Love of the hobby

Paul B

NJRC Member
Getting into this hobby was easy for me. My family owned a seafood business and I grew up playing with dead fish so it was natural for me to start a tank. Of course at 2 or 3 years old I needed a little help.
On fridays my Dad would bring me to the Fulton Fish Market in Manhattan which was the place that supplied seafood for all of New York.
The place was huge and the ships would dock there and the fish would be off loaded right into the street. There would also be huge sea turtles that were (unfortunately) destined to become soup.
Anyway, every once in a while in that mountain of fish you would find some small animal still alive like a crab, shrimp or even a seahorse.
My Dad would let me take those animals home and put them in some water. I only had fresh water so nothing lived more than a few hours but at least I got a taste of how amazing it was to actually take a living piece of the ocean and transport it to my home where I would stay up all night watching and probably trying to feed it.
I had more luck with the freshwater animals like catfish, eels and diamond back terripins. At least I could keep those animals alive.
In those days even a lot of the common freshwater fish we have now were not for sale.
I remember my facination when ever I would go to an aquarium store and see something new. Fish were originally sold in toy stores and called "toy fish"
There were no strictly aquarium stores because even the freshwater hobby was not common before WW2.
There were also no plastic bags so fish came in those little cardboard containers that Chinese take out places sell rice in.
When saltwater fish came out in 1971 I was in total awe and the only fish were blue devils. Imagine seeing a blue devil when for my entire life the only blue fish I ever saw was a blue gourami or a neon tetra. Blue devils blew my mind and I had to have them.
I would sit for hours starring at them just as I did when I was a todler looking at a dying crab in a glass of fresh water.
To this day I am still facinated by anything from the sea, especially something that I have never seen before. Thats the main reason I started SCUBA diving, that and finding lobsters. Now, at my age I have seen just about everything you can see related to the hobby but I still frequent stores in the hope I will find something new.
In a store I don't look at the dozens of yellow tangs, the schools of surgeon fish or the angels, I look behind the rocks and in sumps for the rare specimin that came in with other things and no one knows exactly what to call it. That is what I am looking for.
I have a few fish in my tank now that I don't know what they are and they are my favorites.
I am even more facinated by crustaceans. I put on my magnifying glasses and check out the shellfish (yes I look very wierd, it's a good thing I am married because this behaviour does not attract a lot of supermodels)
Hermit crabs are extreamly cool, they go to great lengths to get to obscure places looking for food even though they would probably do better just sitting on the bottom.
They hang up side down and seem to be struggling just to stay put. But I can see where they are coming from, we humans scale mountains just for the fun of it and do wierd things to attract a mate. They are such facinating creatures and so much more advanced than we are in certain traits.
I still have no idea how they find food but they find it all and never make a mistake. I have a bunch of them, I don't know how many but if I drop in a few pellets or a piece of clam and I see it on the gravel, in about 10 seconds I see all the hermit crabs change direction and head for the food. It will most likely be gone when they get there but how do thay do it? I doubt they see very well and the water in the tank is swirling all over the place. How do they know what direction it is? It goes right over my head and this is the stuff that keps me up at night.
I am amazed by all of this stuff. Why don't fish crash into the glass? It's their lateral line system but imagine having a radar system like that. A school of tangs can instantly dive into a stand of acropora coral and not one of those fish will get a scratch.
Maybe it's me but I love this stuff.
How do you people feel about this hobby? :)
 

falconut

NJRC Member
I'm with you, I love the fish, but also love the inverts. Crabs, shrimp, etc. Unfortunetly, there are issues with a lot of them in reefs, or the fish we keep will eat them, etc. I love the looks of the Arrow crabs, but they're supposed to be fish eatters. I will always have BL hermits in my reef, interesting creatures.

I fished in the bays during family vacations growing up and catching crabs, sand sharks, eels, etc. I was going to grow up and setup a tank for them. But, I don't have the room for a tank of that size, plus I love the colors of the more tropical fish. So, my 90 gallon reef is what I've got.
 
Ditto on the inverts, crabs and shrimp. I love my fish - but I find the other guys even more interactive (as they reach up for food, etc.). And as a hobby, well, it quickly becomes an obsession ... mind you I just went from 18 to 6 tanks! I'd love to get a few Sea Horses someday, maybe start a real Jelly Fish tank ...

And yes - very proud of my tanks and love to show off via FishCam. Right now, there's a cool view of the Open Brain! That Urchin better walk away quick, before I run down and move it myself! http://www.sandeeland.com/fishcam

OpenBrainUrchin.jpg

BTW, for the record - I don't eat fish, I don't fish or hunt ... I don't even go in the water (lakes or ocean). I'm a bit weird like that ...
 

howze01

NJRC Member
Good post Paul! I have always been more fascinated by the wierd little inverts that just pop up. I used to keep and breed a lot of reptiles. I would always end up spending more time watching the crickets than I would the reptiles. Their social structures, where they like to go the most to chirp, really cool stuff to me.

I know what you mean about the hermits finding food. I love when I drop a starfish in on the other side of my tank, out of sight from them, and within seconds my Harlequins know right where to head. Do starfish smell? Is it just their tube feet that smell? One of the things that I'm completely 100% perplexed about in my tank!
 
My father also got me started in this hobby. we've always kept freshwater as my dad was always afraid of saltwater tanks. I've loved it since I was probably 4-5 years old and would sit in front of our tank full of angels(FW) and stare at them.
To your point on crustaceans, I've only just begun keeping them but it's amazing to watch them move around. my buddy has an emerald crab we named arnold because he's so big. he loves climbing the reef and trying to snap at the fish swimming by. interesting creatures!
 
Thank you Paul for this post. I have always been fascinated with the ocean in a glass box. I grew up on the beach and in the water...surfing, fishing, etc. To have the opportunity to have what I love right in my living room is awesome. If you think about it, it's really something to be grateful for. I get so much joy from watching my livestock, but just as much taking care of them. Whether its fish, inverts, or corals, I dig them all equally. Grateful to this hobby and the folks I get to share it with....
 

MadReefer

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NJRC Member
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Paul,
Terrapins in FW for shame; my son would be yelling at you if he saw this.....LOL
My dad got me started as well. We kept 4 tanks guppies, mollies, convict cichlid and I actually had a true piranha.
Not mention we went to the beach often during the summer and my uncles had boats.
My son and I used to do lots of seining but he's to old now to hang with his dad..Haha
 
Paul thats a great post and thanks for the great story.Brings back some great memories of being a kid and the reasons why Im sure we in our own ways keep a fish tank.I didnt get many "hands on" when I was a kid but treasure the times I did.I will always be amazed at alot of the animals we now are able to keep right in our living rooms.And at least in reefing we seem to get away with keeping more than we have to fess up about.I know for sure if I asked about keeping monkeys my wife would freak...so I do know that if I sneaked in a creepy mantis shrimp it would be ok...not that Ive ever done that or nuthin...lol
 
I'll still never forget my first visit to Aquarium Stock Company down on Chambers Street near city hall. There was a tank set up with (I think) a copperband and a coral banded shrimp. I was already a freshwater aqauarist and that made me swoon. I almost fainted. I was well and truly hooked.
 

TanksNStuff

Officer Emeritus
Officer Emeritus
Paul, another great post that makes us think about why we're in this hobby. I'm sure everyone has their own story to share and here's mine.

I grew up in the Pine Barrens in South Jersey. My neighborhood was called Collings Lakes, and we were surrounded by like 5 different lakes. Needless to say, I spent a good portion of my childhood fishing and swimming in these lakes. I was always amazed at things like why a fish would bite on corn, bread "balls", crickets, and even hot dogs. These were obviously items that aren't naturally found in a lake, so how do the fish know they like them? I never found that answer, but I have grown to accept it as a fish's natural instinct.

Also, along with the freshwater fish, I spent a lot of time catching turtles and snakes. We even went so far as to digging a huge pit in my friends back yard while his parents were away for a weekend. He was staying with us and we knew that noone would be around to stop us digging it in his backyard... and unfortunately we never thought ahead far enough to wonder if we would get in trouble when his parents came home. :stupid: This snake pit was around 10' wide by 15' long and around 3' deep. Then we went hunting and grabbed a few turtles and snakes and tossed them in the pit. We watched them in there for a few days, feeding them lettuce and bugs and stuff. Then his parents came home and ruined our lil ecosystem. :( This was my first experience with keeping a captive animal.

As I continued to grow up, my family would spend summer vacations camping down near the Jersey Shore. The campgrounds usually had lakes where we'd find the familiar bass, catfish, sunnies, etc... but some campsites were near tidal bays and I learned about saltwater critters. There were tons of lil hermit crabs scurrying around in the mud, muscles clinging to the bridge piers, and blue claw crabs were extremely fascinating to me. To watch them running sideways was always mind blowing to me... and those strong sharp claws have gotten a hold of me more than once.

When my parents took us "crabbing" with those lil 4-sided traps that closed as you pulled the string... I was again amazed at how the crabs loved the stinky rotten uncooked chicken we used as bait. The fish head we used sometimes was understandable... but why did they love raw chicken? I never found that out either, but I soon learned that I loved to eat crabs! Especially when cooked in spaghetti sauce, yum.

Also on the camping vacations, we took day trips to the beach. That was when I learned to love the oceans. There were tons of new critters to find and learn about. More hermits, horseshoe crabs, jelly fish, etc. Then we also spent lots of time collecting shells and wondering what animals were living in them before they washed up on the beach. I remember digging big pits on the beach (some things just never change), and then running around collecting things to put in my pool. I guess that was when I first found my love of keeping an aquarium, although the snake/turtle pit could have played a part in my love for keeping animals too.

Anyway, as the years went by, we moved away from our Pine Barrens home and since we moved further north we didn't go camping much either. My relatives have always loved the beach though and I don't think I've ever spent a summer without visiting it at least once or twice. Throughout my childhood, several of my uncles owned boats so I always got plenty of chances to take a ride out on the ocean.

Out on the boats, we did everything from skiiing to fishing. Another thing I always loved to do was to go digging for clams. My uncle would anchor out near a shallow area in the back bays. Then we all jumped out with a mesh back tied to our waist and started digging in the muck with our toes until we found a clam... then reached down and pulled them out. I was amazed that these things seemed to be everywhere, just hiding below the mud. What was even more amazing to me was how did them move around? They were just two shells slapped together to hide the living creature inside. No fins, no arms, nothing... and they were too heavy to float around, so how do they get there? Oh, and this would be some of the times when I found out how strong the blue claw crab claws were. :frown:

I could go on with many stories of my ocean/beach days but this post is getting too long and I have more to share.

So flash back to when I moved away from the Pine Barrens. I moved to Cherry Hill the summer before my freshman year in high school. My new house was not very close to a lake, although we did eventually find one in Haddonfield where we would do our fishing and canoeing, etc. However, before then I found a new place to hang out. It was a store called Martin's Aquarium, that was in the Ellisburg shopping center. This store had everything you could imagine. Rabbits, ferrets, snakes, lizards, turtles, and of course fish. They had the usual fw fish, but also had a small amount of sw fish. I spent much of my teenage years hanging out in this store and to this day I don't know why I never got my own real tank back then. I know I had some goldfish and a beta or two and kept them in the lil bowls, but that was about it.

As I grew older and lived on my own, I began vacationing to more exotic places than "the beach". When I took a cruise to the Carribean, I spent a day snorkeling on Cozumel. Wow, was that exciting! I saw beautiful, colorful fish. I saw portions of the reef with strange looking corals. This was a new world to me and I was hooked ever since.

Then I happen upon a family member giving me a 135g tank because it was too big to take with them to Florida. But that broke on my during my planning stages and I ended up with my current 75g tank instead. Joining this club only fueled my passion for this hobby and I've been slowly stocking my tank to where I'd like to upgrade if I had the room.

Then, after my wedding in Grand Cayman, my cousin got the urge to get scuba lessons. I gladly followed suit and I just got certified this year. I had an awesome experience in the same place I learned about snorkeling... a week long, 17 dive trip in Cozumel. I had a blast and saw so many incredible things that I wish I could literally live under the sea! I can't wait to do it again... I just need more money and more vacation time.

Umm, I think that's enough. This novel is long enough already. I hope you enjoyed my story as much as Paul's and the others.
 

Paul B

NJRC Member
TanksNStuff, yes I did enjoy it.
It sounds a lot like my life.
Growing up on Long Island I spent many hours on muddy beaches and sand bars digging for clams. And crabbing either with the chicken leg or the four sided traps was my favorite thing to do, still is. It is such a shame that today kids don't know how to do that, even kids that have access to those places. (It is hard to clam in Utah)
These days I still crab with the chicken leg but most of the time I walk through the shallows with a hand net and just scoop them up or if I want a lot, I go with someone with a two man net.
I love going with the large net because I also collect lots of fish and when I find something unusual, I take it home for my local marine tank.

but I soon learned that I loved to eat crabs! Especially when cooked in spaghetti sauce, yum.
That is the best sauce, I grew up with it and still make it all the time.
We also collect mussels.
 

TanksNStuff

Officer Emeritus
Officer Emeritus
Paul, glad you enjoyed it! Another trick I learned when I went camping with some friends in Virginia... http://www.cherrystoneva.com/

We went out on one of their docks at night (they have 4 piers out onto the Chesapeake Bay), just as high tide was almost at it's peak. Shine flash lights into the water and the crabs swim up to the light. Scoop up with net, repeat.

20 minutes later we had a bushel of crabs! I never felt so guilty in my life... but enjoyed every bite.

Not sure if that works in all areas. I've only done it the one time. I'd be interested to know if it worked in other places... maybe you could try it out and let me know?
 

Paul B

NJRC Member
It works in all areas and out east thats how we would do it. Once we hade two bushels of live crabs and we put them in my cousin's basement. It was cool there and there was a sand floor because he didn't pour the concrete yet. There was also no lights. The next day we went down there and the bushels were empty, but there were crab footprints all over the basement. We had to track down about 50 crabs and dig them up.

We also did a lot of clamming and we had a bushel of them in my same cousin's 1955 Oldsmobile trunk. We went home to Queens and forgot about the clams in his trunk until the next week. He had to sell the car because you could not get with in a half a block from it.
 
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