That was the main reason we wanted a 2nd child was so that our daughter had someone to play with when were occupied with house stuff. I know it will get easier but harder at the same time.It may be different with boys but looking back with twin girls the first 2 years were harder but the 5 since have been gravy. They entertain each other - a built in play date 24/7. You'll be able to compare it to your daughter.